Wednesday, September 12, 2007
true friendship is
habang nakahiga, naisip ko, mahirap pala talagang magestablish ng pagkakaibigan.
minsan kasi, kahit alam mo na click kayo sa halos lahat ng bagay, malalaman mo na lang na sa huli, di pala talaga kayo magkaibigan.
napadefine tuloy ako kung ano yung friendship in its deepest and truest meaning.
and i came up with these...
Real and true friendship involves freedom of choice, accountability, truth, and forgiveness. *tama naman di ba? a friend should never dictate you on what you are suppose to do because he thinks that you have a mind of your own, pero, he's just there to guide you. and if in case you fall, he is there to motivate you to pick yourself up. he understands where you have been and accepts who you've become and still gently invites you to grow.
Real friendship looks at the heart, not just the "packaging." *tama ulit di ba? kasi di lang kayo friends kasi maganda ka, gwapo ka, sexy ka o macho ka. ang friendships dapat based on chemistry and a feeling na "you are home" whenever you are with that person.
Genuine friendship loves for love's sake, not just for what it can get in return. *di dapat one-way traffic lang.
True friendship is both challenging and exciting. It risks, it overlooks faults, and it loves unconditionally...
*need i say more?
Wednesday, September 12, 2007